Sometimes, the most powerful way to inspire someone to change is by telling them a story.
This is the underlying idea behind Dr. Shelbi Cullenâs new book, âSteadfast in Every Season: Seeing Godâs Faithfulness in the Lives of Women of the Bible.â
Cullen serves as an assistant professor of biblical counseling and womenâs ministries at »ÆÉ«app. Inspired by the call to faithful endurance in Hebrews 12, her book discusses the stories of faithful women in Scripture and draws out timeless applications.
We recently talked with Cullen about some of those applications and about her heart for strengthening womenâs ministries through sound biblical teaching.
All Scripture is profitable, so we know that these stories are there to correct, teach, and train us in righteousness. God put them there â theyâre inspired texts.
Even though these women lived in a different time and their cultural context is different than mine, we still all have difficult circumstances outside of us that weâre dealing with: family dynamics, relationship dynamics, and all manner of difficult things. And we can learn how to respond in a way that glorifies God; thatâs what these women have taught me.
God is using these passages in our life to transform us from the inside out. So itâs much more than just a story.
You get to see a real person in a real time reacting to their circumstances. I chose to write about women who responded in a way I would want to respond if I were in that same situation. Take Ruth, for example: She was dragged away from her life context, having to move to a foreign land. A lot of people go through things like that.
So the story helps us see, âWow, my situation is not unique. There are other people who have gone through something similar, and look at how sheâs responding.â
One of the stories Iâve used most in counseling is the one of Martha and Mary. I think, primarily, Martha represents those of us who are very focused and task-oriented. She loves the Lord, but here we have a narrative where thereâs a dinner going on and sheâs losing it. I think all of us can relate to that. This would be the woman whoâs anxious because things aren’t working out her way.
Then youâve got Mary, whoâs in that same circumstance with the same cultural expectations, but sheâs choosing to sit at Jesusâs feet. Whatâs so beautiful about that is sheâs actually taking on the role of a disciple. Lukeâs trying to emphasize what a disciple of Christ looks like.
Thatâs what I try to encourage people with in counseling. Weâre not saying that service is bad; obviously, serving somebody is a wonderful goal. But the attitude behind it is important. We ask, âHow did you go from servant-hearted to anxious, from godly care to ungodly care?â
So I guide people through that. I let them read the text, and we talk through it, and we discuss how it applies to their specific situation. I know that Godâs going to use His Word to draw people out â I donât have to force it. If theyâre really believers, the Holy Spirit will use the Word to convict their heart.
Mary Magdalene. I realized as I was studying her life that she’s not often taught biblically. People often say sheâs a prostitute, but I wasnât seeing any of that in the text.
All I see is a woman who is completely overwhelmed as an unbeliever with seven demons â an intense situation. I see Jesus loving her by releasing her from that. I see a woman who was saved and regenerated, and all of her fruit is amazing. She is following Jesus with other women, helping Him out of her means, and faithful to follow Him to the cross. Sheâs obviously a transformed person, and so she encouraged my socks off.
I think the biggest weakness is biblical literacy. My push is to show that the Word of God is sufficient for all things. God gives us His Word for life and godliness, and even in narrative form, He has something there to teach us and correct us. But youâve got to approach it carefully and thoughtfully. Youâve got to know the Word before you minister the Word to a broader audience.
You know, I have two stickers on my iPad that my students see every time I teach. One says, âBiblical Sufficientist,â and the other says, âGo read your Bible, girl.â I want my students to see that every time.
I think, in the church, weâve lost the conviction that Godâs Word is sufficient. A lot of womenâs ministries have a tendency to focus on events rather than Scripture and theology.
So when I teach Foundations of Womenâs Ministry, I am talking about practical things, like how to lead a small group. But Iâm also asking them things like, âWhose church is this, anyway?â This is Christâs church, and Iâm helping them develop a biblical framework for what theyâre doing.
At TMU, we are committed to a literal, grammatical, historical hermeneutic. I want people to read the text, make observations, and study the context. I want them to be so familiar with the narrative that they can see the whole sweep of it, and I want their applications of a text to be well-grounded on sound observation and interpretation.
When Iâm counseling people, thatâs really what Iâm modeling. When I give them homework, I want them to begin to interpret Scripture that way. I want them to move through observation and interpretation into application, and I want them to resolve to walk faithfully in light of that study.
So when I write, Iâm naturally writing like that, because I know the importance of getting the full picture and being faithful to the Word of God. Thatâs my top concern.
Cullenâs book is available for purchase at . Learn more about TMU’s School of Biblical Studies here.
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